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Interpersonal relationships

Starting
1. I'm gonna tell an anecdote
  1. What would you do if your best friend acts uncaringly to your problems, even though you have always been all ears to his concerns?
Content 1.
1. I'm going to say some of the plans some friends told me and describe the way I handled them
  1. Stop being his friend.
    1. I Can't do that....
      1. YES, KENET, YOU'RE THE VICTIM HERE
      2. That's right, he never wanted to be your friend, he's just a parasyte
        Do you remember when he didn't wanted to help you that time?
        -Yes, he did it several times, indeed...
        Now, he HATES you!
  2. Talk to him.
    1. NO, he will avoid my problems just like before!
      1. Yeah, Talking is an option, but he won't listen to me
  3. Kenet, stop being that paranoid.
    1. Am I?
      1. Should I stop worrying about that?
        I'm the problem here, mate...
  4. You're wrong, maybe he's not well, and you should help him instead
    1. Maybe he's the victim here, and I'm just crying about my feelings and ignoring he's reality
      1. I'm such a MONSTER, I DON'T EVEN DESERVE HIM
  5. I'm not the one you shoud ask, talk to your parents
    1. They would say parent's stuff, they won't understand me
  6. Calm down, you TOXIC!
    1. Toxic!? I'm such a horrible thing?
      1. Content 1.1
        I'm going to introduce the concept of Toxicity, say what does it means
        a toxic relationship, is the one where does exists some attachments, but the way it developps, hurts (somehow) both partners
        Content 1.2
        Now, im going to match that definition with my case; that is, i'm going to say the main idea
        Yes, I'am Toxic
        But i'm not a monster, I still love my best friend, but I kinda silly interacting with him.
The main idea
1. I'm going to say how that last thing, is the key to starting struggling Toxicity; saying, on the way in, the reasons why Toxicity happens
  1. Toxic people don't want to be like that; they are preys of the confunsion and the inability of handling correctly, the inputs and outputs in our mind, it's a wrong habit we must fix
content 2
1. I'm going to say, how am I struggling against that habit that means being toxic
  1. The most important step is to recognize the habit; having done this, it's easier to get some help (easier to us).
    1. I went to the psychologist
    2. asking to my best friend if i'm doing it well and if he doesn't feel bad regard my actions
    3. Talked to my mom
Ending
1. Im going to summarize what i said
  1. STOP LOOKING AT TOXIC PEOPLE AS MONSTERS

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