Choosing the ideal Havening Technique

Client who was previously a competent driver has become fearful of driving on motorways after a friend described being in an accident on a motorway. Which Havening Technique would you choose first of all?

Client is very angry about a situation which is similar to very many minor ones before it. The anger has built up and has not been expressed to anyone who could change things, ie, a manager or colleague. The angry thoughts are increasingly and seem to 'always be playing' in his mind. He has been able to express his anger to friends and family and they are now tired of this behaviour and feel upset for him at the same time. Family have suggested he see a Havener.

Client has recently had a diagnosis of a life threatening disease and feels completely depressed and that nothing will work, there can be no improvement. Is not really open to thinking anything can help and doesn't want to discuss or think about upsetting events in his history. What Havening Technique would you choose to introduce first?

Lady has sudden onset of chronic pain

Child is very distressed and doesn't want to share what has been the cause.

Elderly man is feeling sad. The sadness relates to the death of his daughter who he had argued with the last time he was with her.

Young woman who wants to be more confident in her new role at work. Turns out she is convinced she is poor at maths and is avoiding numbers and jobs involving maths or geometry. She believes this to be genetic, and accepts it and isn't that upset when discussing. She sees it as a hassle as she has recently been promoted and now has to look more at the accounts. History taking reveals an EMLI aged nine in the maths class and then many other similar experiences. Which Technique would you choose?

Havening Techniques are all the same

Choosing the ideal Havening Technique is more likely to

After Event Havening, a client is doing some Transpirational Havening and they suddenly quietly say "I am okay". What type of Havening Technique would you move elegantly into?

Client is doing classic Affirmational Havening, the Havener is suggesting many ideas that the Havener thinks are 'positive'. The Havenee is following and chanting these suggested affirmations. During saying 'I am confident' they look increasingly unsure, and upset, blushing a bit and their voice sounds wavery. What do you think they are actually thinking while chanting and what part of their brain are they activating, what system are they activating (is it their sympathetic or parasympathetic system?) and from your own answers to all of these questions. What type of Havening do you think is actually taking place?

Client wants to stop smoking. After doing some Event Havening, Role Havening and Transpirational Havening to reduce her stress responses she is feeling much calmer but still buys cigarettes and reports needing to smoke. Which Havening Technique would you choose now?

During the distraction element of Event Havening the client is occupied and thinking thoughts which may be

Client wants to start a new business and is hopeful, but a bit fearful and doing a lot of 'what if I fail' type thinking strategies. What Havening Techniques might you use?

Person feeling very guilty as was very harsh on an employee and later heard that they had become very depressed. Able to talk about it, and talking a lot and kind of repeating the same regret. What Havening Technique would you use?