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Attraction. (c-ra+q+se=a) Can skip to any ppoint but the more you skip the more risky it is to
suces
- What is it?
- It is an investment of time
- You want the investment in to the car you
want to be rewarded.
- Blemishes and problems with the car help
identify yourself and more attracted to the car
itself
- Our time means a lot - so our investment in to the time means we are
more attracted to something
- So even if it is flawed we still want it after investing
our time
- Do not want our time to be wasted
- So even if it is flawed we still want it after investing
our time
- You want the investment in to the car you
want to be rewarded.
- It is an investment of time
- How to get girls to invest in us
- Principles of attraction - core qualitiies that
make a women attracted to us
- Confidence
- Competence is
confidence
- Do something a lot of time to gain competence and therefore
confidence
- Get motivated to
do it
- Care more about doing something (give value) than the
fear itself
- Care more about doing something (give value) than the
fear itself
- Do something a lot of time to gain competence and therefore
confidence
- Do not worry about
rejection!
- Get rejected everyday of your life i.e.
McDonalds
- Because you a customer and higher
status
- Only reason we care about rejection is
because we think they are a higher status
- Only reason we care about rejection is
because we think they are a higher status
- Because you a customer and higher
status
- Worst that can
happen
- Say no
- Or get ignorned
- Say no
- Get rejected everyday of your life i.e.
McDonalds
- Competence is
confidence
- Leadership
- Social
Intelligence
- What we can get away with without being
weird
- Do not do extreme
peacocking
- Do not do extreme
peacocking
- Fashion
- Work on
yourself
- Work on
yourself
- What we can get away with without being
weird
- Ambition/Drive
- Doesnt matter where you currently are in your life but where you are going instead
- Girls do not think they are perfect so would want you to be the
same
- Have a short/mid/long term goals and know what they
are
- Girls do not think they are perfect so would want you to be the
same
- Pure hard work put effort in - the more you want something the more you'll
get it
- Doesnt matter where you currently are in your life but where you are going instead
- Social Proof/Pre-Selection
- Cheat code - the prime trigger of
attraction
- If you talk to someone in a bar and you see them later
- They will smile at you
- If you do that a lot of times
- Everybody is looking at you
- Hot girl assumes he is the leader/ambitious/social intelligence/confident kind of guy
- Hot girl assumes he is the leader/ambitious/social intelligence/confident kind of guy
- Everybody is looking at you
- They will smile at you
- If you leave your girlfriend for 5 minutes the girls
will all be competing with her to prove they are
better than her
- Cheat code - the prime trigger of
attraction
- Confidence
- Game - enabling a guy to get attraction by not having the
core qualities and to punch above his weight + take out a
girl in any league
- Do not show off and invest in to them. Its far too easy.
I.e. don't say what a nice car you have etc
- Principles of attraction - core qualitiies that
make a women attracted to us
- (c-ra+q+se=a) SUCCESS RATE
HIGH - can get any girl you desire
with this
- Direct sometimes can
work
- Comfort
- Opening words must make her feel comfortable
otherwise she will leave. OR if you lose comfort at
any point
- Comfort gives you the chance to listen to what you
have to say
- Comfort gives you the chance to listen to what you
have to say
- Can add value to her life (Adding value)
- As soon as she has this idea in her head you BR
- As soon as she has this idea in her head you BR
- Opening words must make her feel comfortable
otherwise she will leave. OR if you lose comfort at
any point
- Breaking Rapport
- Negging is breaking
rapport
- Only important people/people with
power/authority (already demonstrate
qualities of attraction) can open with
breaking rapport etc.
- Important because we are will just become a friend with just
comfort - won't sleep with you
- Do something that she isn't as important to you as you are
to her
- Now she makes a decision: Do I let this guy walk out of my life and lose the value I have already gained? Or do I do
something to keep it?
- By seeing a bit of reward the girl will
come for it
- i.e if you were offered £5 but then told but first you have to come up on
stage you would
- We are designed this way. And we don't mind working for something if
we have to
- i.e if you were offered £5 but then told but first you have to come up on
stage you would
- By seeing a bit of reward the girl will
come for it
- Now she makes a decision: Do I let this guy walk out of my life and lose the value I have already gained? Or do I do
something to keep it?
- Get her really
animated
- Must be careful as there is a fine line between severing and breaking rapport
- Negging is breaking
rapport
- Qualification
- Means to magnify the investment
- Means to magnify the investment
- Afterwards she will be so invested in the conversation she will not want to leave. She has invested too
much
- To the point as she sees your flaws she will find them attractive
- To the point as she sees your flaws she will find them attractive
- Sexually Esculate
- Turn her on
- Turn her on
- Can be done on any time frame from start to finish
- Direct sometimes can
work
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