for Sally Amis - welcoming a
new-born baby into the world
Born Yesterday
pun: literally written day after Sally was
born / used to symbolise how the baby
'knows nothing' - childhood innocence
platonic relationship + awareness of the
negative (like Nettles + Brothers)
an acceptance of the harsh realities
of life, like in 'Sonnet 43'
But if it shouldn’t, then May you be ordinary;
Have, like other women, An average of talents:
But - negative
ordinary -
unexceptional, common
place, of no special note
average of talents: cooking,
cleaning (womanly duties)
Philip Larkin
English poet. 1922 -1985
solitary man who disliked fame
observations of everyday life
negative + cynical
Not the usual stuff
About being beautiful,
Or running off a spring
Of innocence and love -
usual stuff - very un-poetic, common phrase used to deliberately
contradict the special, unrealism hopes people normally have for a
child. Strikes out against other people's comments
beauty beautiful -
alliteration: makes the
phrase roll off the tongue +
sound elegant + attractive
spring - natural flow of water. From folk
tales: a fountain able to make people
young again. Highlights unrealistic
associations with youth + baby-hood
Structure
Made a wish for the baby
He first tells us what it is NOT. Creates
suspense, much like suspense about how
child will turn out
Wishes catch us off guard, especially
given intended recipient of poem
Disclaimer 'fi' shows us that
Larkin's wish is positive after all
They will all wish you that,
And should it prove possible,
Well, you’re a lucky girl.
he's not saying he doesn't wish that on her, but he is cynical about how realistic those
expectations are. These traits are by products of luck, over which you have no control
lucky girl - condescending phrase
Nothing uncustomary To pull you off your balance,
That, unworkable itself, Stops all the rest from
working.
doesn't want her to be
ridiculously good-looking or
talented because as a result it
will disrupt your whole life
In fact, may you be dull —
If that is what a skilled,
Vigilant, flexible,
Unemphasised, enthralled
Catching of happiness is
called.
if - disclaimer
'I don't want you to be dull I want you to be skilled,
vigilant, flexible, unemphasised + enthralled -> but
these qualities are thought to be dull by others'
quick firing off of
these 5 adjectives
shows how
complicated
catching happiness
is
skilled - trained or
experienced to do a set task
(domestically - sexist views)
vigilant - watching out
to detect danger,
protective over your
family
flexible - adaptable + willing
unemphasised - not
bragging. Prefix 'un'
suggests that the lack of
something can be a virtue
enthralled - captivating +
charming
catching - language of
infection is used to suggest
that happiness can be
caught
last 2 lines rhyme, making them
stand out and contrast the
conversational tone of poem.
Clearly these 2 lines, like the volta
in a Shakespearean sonnet, contain
the message of the poem
message: true happiness can be found for a
woman in embracing the domestic role of a
wife (cooking, cleaning, looking after family,
being humble) -> sexist
Tightly-folded bud, I have wished you something
None of the others would:
tightly-folded bud - metaphor:
undeveloped part of a plant (like a
new-born baby swaddled in a blanket).
Has its whole life to come - opening of
its flower, beauty etc.
you - direct address
Not ugly, not good-looking,
repetition of negative words
- overemphasises negativity