Strengths derived from marriages and families
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1. reproduction/nurturant care of children.
2. establishment of an individual's social identity, thru social role and status
3. source of intimacy and need fulfillment throughout a life span
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5 common myths about marriage and family
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1. myths about the past
2. myths about what is natural
3. myths about the self-sufficient family
4. the myth of the family as a haven
5. myth of the perfect family
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nuturant care
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the provision of the essential emotional and social needs of human beings
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social identity
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the name given at birth that distinguishes us from others and attaches us to a family of orientation
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family of procreation
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the family formed later thru marriage and child-rearing
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social roles
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acquired thru family of orientation (son, daughter) and family of procreation (partner, mother/father)
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social status
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the social esteem assigned to the status occupied by an individual
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ascribed status
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status of the family of orientation
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achieved status
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things that we have some control over (career, education)
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legal definition of marriage
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the minimal composition and boundaries of the family group. commonly used for tax purposes and gov't assessment
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definition of family
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at least one parent/guardian and one child who share common residence
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definition of marriage
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two people who established an approved relationship and maintain a common residence
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functional definition of family
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one or more/parents and one or more children with the function of nurturant-socialization
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functional definition of marriage
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normatively defined relationship between two people with the major function of intimacy and need fulfillment
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Inclusive definition of family
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focuses on the meaning of the relationship between members of the family group
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Normative definition of family
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a kinship group normatively defined to carry out nurturant socialization of dependent children
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normative definition of marriage
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normatively defined relationship between at least 2 people, established with intentions of performance and the primarily sexually based bond in which the reproduction of children is expected to occur
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conceptual approach
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a set of fundamental assumptions about society that guides sociological thinking and research
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structural functional
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society is made up of interdependent parts, each fulfilling a necessary function
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functional needs the family meets
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reproduction, socialization and motivation
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functional alternative
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other forms that may fulfill functions similar to that of a traditional family
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conflict approach
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conflict is inevitable as self-interest is common to all social groups. power is the center and a source of conflict. values, ideas and practices reinforce the inequality in society
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symbolic interaction
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humans use symbols to denote the world around them and are capable of self-reflection and evaluation
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social exchange theory
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rational choice. actors, groups and institutions make rational choices to maximize rewards and minimize costs
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family development approach
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stages of family life cycle based on development of need and tasks. task originate from:
1. physical maturation of children
2. cultural pressures/priviledges
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8 stages of family life cycle
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1. married couples without children
2. childbearing families (oldest child 0-30 months)
3. families with preschool children (2.5-6 yrs)
4. families with school age children (6-13 yrs)
5. families with teenagers (13-20 yrs)
6. families as launching centers (1st child gone. last leaving)
7. middle age parents (empty nest to retirement)
8. aging family members (retirement to death of both spouses)
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4 types of data collection
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1. content analysis
2. field research
3. experimental research
4. survey research
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probability of sampling
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equal chance of being chosen to be included in the sample
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non-probability sampling
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the population is unknown
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definition of dating
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interaction of couples that enable to explore varying level of intimacy and commitment
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definition of courtship
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interaction that enable couples to explore deeper levels of intimacy and commitment with a view to long term commitment
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functions of dating
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manifest:
1. recreation
2. mate selection
latent:
1. socialization
2. social status
3. fulfilling ego needs
4. opportunities for sexual experimentation and intimacy
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permanent availability
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social exchange theory. marriage market is open and playing the field is desireable
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exogamy
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partner must be outside of prohibited groups
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endogamy
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within acceptable social or cultural groups
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heterogamy
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selecting mate different background/characteristics
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homogamy
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mate with similar cultural, economic or demographic characteristics
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sex ratio
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impacts the marriage market in terms of overall availability of dating partners
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filter theory
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most will narrow the pool of prospective partners by selecting people we interact with regularly and have certain desirable traits
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network interference
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attempts of family or friends to influence dating choices
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gender differences in perception and expectations of dating
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women less favorable of casual sex
egalitarian values have affected roles of men and women in the dating relationship
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psychological abuse
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insults, threats, public intimidation
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physical abuse
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pushing, grabbing, slapping, choking, assault with a weapon or object
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sexual abuse
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undue pressure to engage in sexual acts
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date rape
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unwanted, forced intercourse in the context of dating
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3 types of date rape
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1. early
2. beginning
3. relational
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preoccupation
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singular concentration on love object
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reciprocation
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long for love to be returned
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exclusivity
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this is the only one
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fantasization
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fantasize how love will be declared
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searching
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cues that signify the desire to each other
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idealization
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only the good can be found
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companionable love
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love that includes physical and emotional attachments, alongside a realistic assessment of the partner and relationship
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