Flashcards
Relationships: As Forms and Feelings
Flashcards do conjunto (19)
- 1Roles I play in Relationships: What do I imagine a relationship to feel like?Companionship:
Being at ease with another person:
Why is it important to me? - 2Partnership: The structure of how people form deeper connection Labeling shared feelings: How do I approach setting expectations, forming agreements, and expressing feelings with another person?Lifestyle Choice:
How do I create a same page understanding with steady and unfleeting commitment with a partner - 3Non-Negotiables in a RelationshipShared Interests
- 4Self-IdentityReaching a New Stage
- 5Being at ease with another personWhat quality of presence do I want to feel with another person
- 6Life Mission: How do I see value in myself. How can I be of value to others as I play different roles and take on differnt qualities in my life?How do I choose to re-evaluate my
Self-Worth outside of my career? - 7How can I be of Value to others as I play different roles:Core Relational Qualities that can help me
in relationships: - 8Vulnerability Bold Assertiveness Intentional ExpressivenessConnection:
Mutual benefit emotionally when relating - 9Reaching the Threshold between romantic feelings and friendship How do I cross it?Emotions around Dating Relationships
- 10Imagination of where a relationship can goWhat is the narrative of myself?
How do I describe myself to me? - 11What is the Overarching Metaphor of this Story (The Roadblock to my identity in a relationship)What do I imagine a relationship
to feel like?
Am I fully invested in a connection?
Do I not need this, but would like this? - 12Recognizing early on how I feel about someone: Reducing the fantasy of who people could beUsing my Intuition
- 13Gaining clarity with the goal of a relationship being effortless rather than constructedRemoving the fog and allow the connection to unfold with a tone of color
- 14Opening up the treasure box causes me feel to feel..How private is too private?
- 15What would it feel like to be willing to allow a natural flow with someone ?Showing up authenticity vs accepting the unfamiliar in a relationship
- 16Clarity: Define what I want out of this partnership/relationshipConfront: the realty that this wasn't a fit
for what I am looking for to meet the needs
I have develop over time - 17Perspective= what am I looking for through being with this person? Am I ready for this person?Overemphasis of imagination= presumptions of other's wants, needs, or conditions made through being with you
- 18Remind myself: I can find myself through confronting my uncertainty rather than undermining my valueWhat does a relationship look like when we are not swimming in the deep end vs finding natural flow?
- 19My Artist part is the present one (the here-and-now feeler)My Architect part is the planner
(the future speculative thinker)
Informações
- Descrição
- Expressive Project on understanding and establishing lifestyle roles, role qualities, and viewing relationships through various forms
- Criado por
- Lindsey Sherwin
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