"Examine what one religion teaches about marriage" [30 marks]
Development of
Christian
Teachings
For early
Christians,
marriage customs,
laws and practices
were inherited from
the Graco-Roman
culture and from
their Jewish
background
The early Christians simply
followed customs of the times and
moved in together, with or without
a simple domestic marriage
ceremony
It was the cohabitation of baptised people and sexual fidelity was stressed.
There was no special ceremony for
Christian marriage as there was for the
Eucharist and for Baptism- marriage
was not seen as needing to be blessed
by a priest.
Marriage gradually became an exchange of mutual consent based on the
principle of consent from Roman law and the emphasis of sexual
consummation from Judaism.
Progressed to be seen as a process rather than an event
and specific Christian ceremonies didn't come about until
well into the Middle Ages
Philip Reynolds argues that getting married was a process rather
than a simple act- marriage was initiated by betrothal and
consummated by sexual intercourse. Any liturgical ceremony
might occur at various points between courtship and betrothal
In the 20th century Pope Alexander III decided that mutual consent was the
basis for a valid marriage and that it was an unbreakable contract
Since then the Roman Catholic Church has always held that a properly celebrated and
consummated marriage cannot be dissolved
Today the CATHOLIC CHURCH teaches that marriage is a divine institution that cannot be broken, even by
divorce. Marriage is seen as on of the seven sacraments, but harking back to the original understanding it
is the only sacrament that is not administered directly by a priest, but which the husband and wife
administer directly to each other
Quotes
Bible
A man and a woman who by their compact of conjugal love "are no
longer two, but one flesh" Matt. 19:ff
Homosexuality
Genesis
19:4-11
The story of Sodom
Deuteronomy 23:17-18
Leviticus 20:13
Today, the CATHOLIC CHURCH believes there is no sin in having homosexual inclinations, only in putting them into practice.
Following Natural Law any sexual act that is not open to procreation is unnatural and wrong
Monogamy
Many Christians would argue
that marriage is the only place
that sexual activity is endorsed
Genesis 2:24
"Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and clings to his wife, and they become one flesh"
1 Corinthians 6:9-10
"Fornicators, idolaters, adulterers, male prostitutes, sodomites, thieves, the greedy, drunkards, revilers,
robbers- none of these will inherit the kingdom of God."
There is now no stigma attached to premarital sex. Sex is seen
as an essential part of a relationship, it is an expression of love
but is also too important to be experimented with
Augustine
Sex was to be restricted to marriage
Sex was still
"dangerous"
The Devil uses women to lead men away from reason, and pleasure in sex leads men away from reason
Positive impact: marriage is seen as a sacrament that should be the basis for a supportive, loving relationship that allows couples to be joined in union
for life
Divorce not recognised, but allows annulments to show that there was no marriage in the first place
Vatican II
"By their very nature, the insitution of matrimony itself and conjugal love are
ordained for the procreation and education of children, and find them their
ultimate crown. "
The couple "render mutual help and service to each other through
an intimate union and the good of the children impose total fidelity
on the spouses and argue for unbreakable oneness between them"
Government
"Marriage is the surest foundation for raising children and remains the choice of
the majority of people in Britain" 2011
Catholic Catechism
Polygamy
and
Monogamy
1993
"Polygamy is not in accord with the moral law... because it is contrary to the equal personal dignity of men and women who in matrimony give
themselves with a love that is total and therefor unique and exclusive"
THE
PROTESTANT
CHURCH
Consider marriage to be
ordained by God for the
union between a man and a
woman with the primary
purpose of glorifying God by
showing his love for the
world, and then for intimate
companionship, rearing of
children and mutual support
Usually approving of
contraception and will
allow the remarriage of
divorcees
Some Protestant groups such as the Religious Society of Friends accept
homosexuality and are in favour of same sex marriage
The mainstream
Protestant
Churches follow
the same belief
as Catholics- see
Catholic
Catechism Quote
1993
EASTERN ORTHODOX CHURCH
Marriage is seen as a
Sacred Mystery
Uniting men and women in
eternal union before God
Marriage is seen as an icon of the relationship between Jesus and
the Church
Like the use of marriage as an analogy to describe the relationship
between God and Israel by the Old Testament prophet Hosea
Unlike Western Christianity, Eastern Christians do not see the couple as giving
each other the sacrament
Rather it is seen as the action of the Holy Spirit acting through the priest and so only a
priest or a bishop may perform the Sacred Mystery
Divorce is discouraged
Sometimes out of economia (mercy) a marriage may be
dissolved and couples may remarry but only three times
Orthodox priests are allowed to marry before ordination, but if their wide dies they may not remarry and
remain a priest
Bishops must always be
monks and so are celibate
Duncan Dormor
Argues that today cohabitation plays an integral part of becoming a couple and leading eventually to marriage for most
Says the Christian Church needs to accept and welcome cohabiting couples and listen to their reasons (e.g. trying out a
relationship to see if it could become a permanent partnership or not) without giving an uncritical idealised
endorsement of marriage
The Church should therefore help couples move from the wedding to the marriage as a life long journey- which is far
more of a moral issue than cohabitation and divorce
Jack Dominion
Catholic psychiatrist
He does not see prematrital sex, cohabitation or even one-off adultery as destroying this ideal and even considers
homosexual sex as fine within a permanent loving relationship- sex is not dangerous and needing marriage to protect it
but rather sex is so powerful and meaningful that can can only be downe to it in a continuous and enduring relationship