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jo man
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- 11. (Celeste Headlee) Don’t multitask be present, be in that moment, don’t think about what youre having for dinner or what you have to do for tomorrow; don’t be half in the conversation and half in other thoughtssd
- 22. Don’t pontificate; if you want to state a opinion be ready for a response or a argument or pushback; you need to enter every conversation assuming that you have something to learnsd
- 33. Use open-ended questions; start the questions with who, what, when, where, why or how; if you put in a complicated question, you`re going to get a simple answer out; try asking like “What was that like?”, “How did that feel?”; because then they might have to stop for a moment and think about it and you´re going to get a much more interesting responsesd
- 44. Go with the flow; Stories and ideas are going to come to you but you need to let them come and let them gosd
- 55. If you don’t know, say that you don’t knowsd
- 66. Don’t equate your experience with theirs; if they talk about a loss of a family member don’t start talking about the time you lost a family member; It is never the same because all experiences are individual; it is not about you; you don’t need to take that moment to prove how amazing you are or how much you’ve suffered; Conversations are not a promotional opportunitysd
- 77. Try not to repeat yourself; its boringsd
- 88. Stay out of the weeds; people don’t care about the years, the names, the dates, all those details; they care about you, what you like, what you have in commonsd
- 99. Its the most important one for her; Listen; listening is perhaps the number one most important skill that you could develop; why do we not listen to each other? First: Because we´d rather talk; when im talking im in control and I don’t have to hear anything im not interested in. Im the center of attention And second: we get distractedsd
- 10It takes effort and energy to actually pay attention to someone, but if you cant do that youre not in a conversation; then its just two people shouting out barely related sentences in the same placesd
- 1110. Be brief; be interested in other people; always be prepared to be amazedsda
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