Effective communication
Slides in this set (6)
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10 ways to have a better conversation
- https://youtu.be/R1vskiVDwl4 (Embed)
- 1. Be present in that moment
- 2. Don't pontificate (go write a blog to do it)
- 3. Enter a conversation, assuming you have something to learn
- 4. Use open ended questions - let people describe & express in their own words & answers.
- 5. Go with the flow, and let them go out of your mind in words.
- 6. Be honest. Don't pretend or assume you know.
- 7. Don't equate your experience with theirs, we're not the same.
- 8. Conversations are not a promotional opportunity.
- 9 Focus on who You really are, and what we have in common, forget about the details & the weed.
- 10. Listen attentively, and talk at the right moment. (listen to understand & speak for mutual support & understanding)
- Caption: From Ted talk 2016
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Extract of wise & inspiring words
- Everyone You will ever meet.
- Know something which You don't know.
- A good conversation is like a mini-skirt; short enough to retain attention, but long enough to cover the subject.
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How to speak so that people want to listen
- DONT'S : 7 Deadly sins of speaking to avoid:
- 1. Gossip : speaking something ill about other people when they are not present.
- 2. Judging
- 3. Negativity
- 4. Making excuses
- 5. Exaggerations
- 6. Dogmatism
- 7. Lying
- DO's
- 1. Honesty - be clear & straight.
- 2. Authenticity - be yourself
- 3. Integrity - doing what you say & meant
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- https://youtu.be/eIho2S0ZahI?list=PLwpFrtWg2EJHyqlGm8qNueXjFRvSXu8Ft (Embed)
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Extract of wise & inspiring words
- Tool box to increase power of our speech
- 1. Register don't use falsetto, use our chest & speak with more "weight" & authority
- 2. Timbre develop a warm, rich & smooth voice
- 3. Prosody impart meaning through rhythm of speech (not monotonous)
- 4. Pace fast or slow
- 5. Pitch high or low
- 6. Volume arouse excitement at right time
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pontificate verb [ I ] on / about
- Express one's opinions in a pompous and dogmatic way.
- e.g. ‘he was pontificating about art and history’
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- có mặt
- hiện tại
- présent
- estar presente
- anwesend
- 出席的，在场的，存在的
- 现在的，目前的
- to be in a particular place Viet
- happening or existing now
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