WHAT IS THE
SELF? self
knowledge,
interpersonal
self, agent self.
1. SELF
KNOWLEDGE -
self-awareness,
self-esteem. 2.
INTERPERSONAL
SELF - public self,
social roles. 3.
AGENT SELF -
self-control, decision
making
purpose of the self is
towards social
acceptance and to play
social roles.
we have
private and
public
self-awareness
people in the USA
are now getting
more concerned
with having plastic
surgery to prepare
their bodies for
their funeral. we
have deep rooted
tendency to care
what others think of
us
much of the self is
designed to enable you to
relate to others.
FURTHERMORE, the
self is in the middle of a
complex battle between
selfish impulses and
social conscience
STANDARDS and
SELF-AWARENESS
DUVAL AND WICKLUND -
1972 - SELF AWARE people
feel bad as they notice a
discrepancy between who
they are and standards. they
either match up to standards
or escape
standards are
concepts of how
things might
possibly be,
around age two
begin the use of
standards -
KAGAN - 1981
self-awareness improves behaviour,
enables social desirability. when
self-awareness is bad, people seek
to escape that through drastic
measures such as self-harm
self-awareness has a purpose
for self-regulation, adopting the
perspective of others, managing
behaviour through goals.
SENTYRZ AND
BUSHMAN -
1998 - people
are less likely to
eat fatty food
when they are
sat in front of a
mirror
HEATHERTON - 1993 -
self-awareness makes people less
aggressive, conform more and diet
LOOKING
OUTSIDE
COOLEY - 1902 -
LOOKING-GLASS SELF -
you imagine how you appear
to others and how others will
judge you. we see ourselves
as a reflection of how we
imagine others see us
PROBLEMS WITH LGS -
may not know how people
REALLY regard them,
people reluctant to give
negative comments
GENERALISED
OTHER - MEAD -
1934 - feedback
from others tells us
who and what we
are
LOOKING INSIDE -
introspection is
better after age 11,
before this, parents
know best
NISBETT AND WILSON
- 1977 - say there is no
such thing as an
introspective access to
higher order cognitive
processes.
LOOKING
AT
OTHERS
SOCIAL COMPARISON -
FESTINGER - 1954 - upward /
en / discouraging social
comparisons, downward
social comparisons (settle for
less)
OVER
JUSTIFICATION
EFFECT -
intrinsic
motivation
diminishes for
activities
associated with
expected rewards
SELF-KNOWLEGE is
sought after for three key
reasons, 1. APPRAISAL
MOTIVE - look for truth
about self. 2.
SELF-ENHANCEMENT -
look for flattering things
about self. 3.
CONSISTENCY - look for
confirmation about self.
the strongest motive is
self-enhancement (to feel
good), the weakest is the
appraisal (truth)
SELF-HANDICAPPING - failure blamed on an
obstacle. BERGLAS AND JONES - 1978 -
self-handicapping is seen as a preservation of
self-esteem. people either withdraw effort or
create obstacles. Berglas and Jones gave half
participants easy the other half hard tasks to
complete, participants who were given harder
tasks chose the impairing drug and the easy ones
the enhancing drug. the harder task group chose
the impairing drug as they were looking for an
external attribution (excuse) for their expected
poor performance in future.
SELF AND
INFORMATION
PROCESSING
SELF-REFERENCE
EFFECT -
information to do
with the self is
processed more
deeply and
remembered better.
ROGERS ET
AL., - 1977 -
more likely to
remember words
if they describe
you
ENDOWMENT
EFFECT -
items gain in
value to the
person that
owns them
SELF-ESTEEM - low
self-esteem (don't want to
fail, more prone to
emotional highs and lows)
DISTORTIONS
OF
NON-DEPRESSED
PEOPLE - they
overestimate good
qualities and
underestimate
faults and
unrealistically
optimistic
SELF-DECEPTION
STRATEGIES - 1.
SELF-SERVING BIAS
- "didn't sleep" 2.
COMPARE TO
THOSE DOING
WORSE. 3. MORE
SKEPTICAL OF BAD
FEEDBACK - "bad
exam"
BENEFITS OF HIGH
SELF-ESTEEM - confidence
you can do the right thing,
adventurous, feels good, more
likely to try again
SOCIOMETER MODEL OF
SELF-ESTEEM - LEARY AND
DOWNS - 1995 - self-esteem is a
gauge of the degree to which one
is being accepted versus rejected
by others. In addition,
self-esteem is a reflection of
successful social connectedness.
social exclusion from a group
depressed participants
self-esteem.
NEGATIVE ASPECTS OF
SELF-ESTEEM -
NARCISSISM - tend to be
more aggressive and have
higher prejudice (look down
on others)
pursuit of self-esteem
may have harmful
consequences.
pressure to meet
others expectations.
can damage
relationships if too
much competition.
high self-esteem is
associated with saying no to
sex. however women with
higher self-esteem are more
likely to underestimate the
risks of sex.
CULTURAL
DIFFERENCES -
INDEPENDENT AND
INTERDEPENDENT
MARKUS AND KITAYAMA -
1991 - began the idea that
cultural styles of selfhood
differ along an independence
continuum.
FLUCTUATING
IMAGES OF
THE SELF -
working
self-concept
SELF-PRESENTATION
- public self-esteem is
more important than
private self-esteem.
SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE -
increase acceptance with
good presentation.
A REAL OR TRUE SELF - the
idea of an inner "true" self has
origins in class prejudice, for
example, when rich aristocrats
became poor, they wanted to
continue believing they were
inherently better than others,
even if others had more money.
different cultures have different
views about a true self, such as
thoughts and feelings vs. public
self.
GOFFMAN - 1959 -
people put on a public
performance that differs
from how they feel
inside.
attitudes towards marriage
may reflect different
attitudes towards the real
self, such as self as
IMPULSE (feelings) what
people feel about
eachother, compared to self
as INSTITUTION -
significance on role
performance, not feelings/
CULTURAL DIFFERENCES -
easteners (japan, china) are
more interdependent, whereas
westerners (UK, USA) tend to
be more independent. asian
idea of selfhood is of more of a
team player, such as japanese
team player in the olympics
who carried on despite a
broken kneecap
OVERVIEW - the main aspects
of the self are to gain social
acceptance and to play social
roles. we have an
interdependent or an
independent sense of self.